Wednesday, April 29, 2009

At last, after 2 weeks of break, yesterday im back at the gym again.

Sweating never felt sooooo good till yesterday.

Just a little while ago, hubby asked me to join him for brisk waking at the nearby park,
i was undecisive at first cos i was halfway vacuuming the house (but that can wait till later..hehe)..then i looked out of the window, whooaaa ! the sun is scorching hot..........nope, im not walking under that kinda heat, so hubby went alone.

Im thinking of cutting my hair, cos, ever since i wear hijab 3 years ago, i never cut my hair.
I dont want it to be too short, cos, i always like to have a small bun behind, when i wear my hijab.

I really really have to cut down on my shopping...i just got myself a watch. The other day was a bag (again) and 4 blouses..all at one go. Me bad !

Ok, actually i need a new shades/sunglasses...the sun is too much for my eyes , especially when i drive. oooops!

Looking forward for the long weekends. !

Monday, April 27, 2009


I just said something that i shouldnt have !

But I was so damn angry..!

May Allah forgive me :(

Friday, April 24, 2009

I received so many text messages of warm wishes fm my loved ones..families and friends.
Im feeling blessed to have them around me .

My hubby ,who is in Sydney now...send me text messages right after subh and the best part is receiving hugs and kisses fm my two kids.

I watered my plants this morning and told them it's my birthday today..haha

I shall not make any birthday speech,hopes or wishes here, cos, ive already did ....silently, privately and personally ........... to HIM .

Happy Birthday to ME !

Monday, April 20, 2009

Yesterday ................

** We all went to my mom-in law's place for lunch.

** The kids and me went gift hunting for hubby's birthday. We bought a wallet for my hubby, chosen by my son. Good choice and good taste, i must say.

** Dinner treat by my sis and brother-in law . My parents and my youngest bro came along too.
It's always a blessing when you have your loved ones around you.

Today .................

** Im the first to wish hubby , this morning.

** The kids wished , hugs and kissed him before they went to school.

Happy Birthday,my dearest !

Tommorrow ,

** My hubby is flying off to Sydney .

** I will be having a few errands to do.

** I really dont know what's in store ........ hope everything will be smooth.

Yesterday....Today....Tommorrow ,

Another Year Passes by and Time is marching on.........

Time..... just come and go in a swift before you know it.

Time..... has it's value and we must be cautious of it.

We are born in time, live in time and die in time.

Every moment has it's precious component of life & every moment counts.

Future ...............

Will i see Friday..............and becoming a year older ??

Insya allah.

Monday, April 13, 2009

Another issue ......................

A Muslim friend is married to a Chinese man for over 10years.

They had civil marriage........means, hubby did not convert to Islam.

They have 2 lovely young kids.

Early this year, the hubby decided to embrace Islam.

Now, they wanted to re -solemnised their marriage , Islamically.
She knows her father has to be the wali ,since he's still alive.

Problem, she doesnt want to have any dealings with the father.
Reason ............ very bad childhood experience. Dont want to proble futher.
Im respecting her personal privacy.

Friend : " If he (the father) has to be my wali.....then i wait till he dies "

Me: " but,what if it you go first before him?" "Any brothers ? uncles ?"

Friend: " so be it !..i dont want to deal with any of my families ! "

** silent **

How can i help her ?

Im checking with the ROMM , how to go about with this case .

" Oh! Allah...we seek your guidance "

Monday, April 6, 2009

Ive been soooo tight up with things lately...that i havent got time to update my blog.

I got my morning classes to attend , housechores to complete , domestic errands to do , kids to ferry around , volunteering at my daughter's school and also FaithHub , my gym .. etc etc etc.

Last Saturday nite meeting with the committees (Faithhub) , there's a little reshuffled of positions . Im elected to be the Asst Secretary (something new for me) and still in-charge of classes .

My plates are full...but im not complaining. Im kinda happy with what im doing right now. I realised , even with all the "running around" , i still have that little time to spend with my good friends and having my own ME time. My morning is just soo precious and HE has make things possible and easier for me. Alhamdulillah.

Besides all the above , ive got few issues that take my concern.

A family whom we know , well... i know the mother , sis Neesa is a widower. They come from a very rich background. They used to live in a very big bungalow , but after her husband's death 4 years ago , and her 2 daughters left for Australia to futher study, she decided to sell off the big house and now living on her own in a flat.

One daughter is happily married and has a child. The second daugther just got back fm Australia and now wanted to get married too. This is the challenging part .............very challenging............

The guy she wanted to get married is a Hindu. She's a Muslim (obviously) ...but now she started to drift , saying that all Gods are the same...bla bla bla. Indirectly she wants to denounce her religion and decided to go on with the civil marriage plan. Probably there'll be a Hindu wedding ceremony... !! nauzubillahi min zaalik.

Someone in the family (an uncle) tried to talk her out......... to no avail. Her mind is quite set for that. Love is stronger than anything else at this point. He said , it might be a murtad case ..... :(

Sad..very sad. When i heard abt this my heart goes for the mother. She's such a nice lady.

I brought my hubby (who was a Hindu) to Islam , and when i heard such story , it really pain me inside.

But who is to blame when such things happend ?


Oh ! Allah , Please guide us to the straight path. Ameen.